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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 16:13

How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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That's it for today.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why do ugly men flirt with girls that are really hot?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Ask yourself:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What motivated you to start reading books in English? What was the first book you read in English?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Do not set goals—set systems.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What melts your heart every time without fail?

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you caught a shoplifter at your yard sale, how would you handle it?

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.